Saturday, January 3, 2009

Becoming Sadness


Yesterday Mary and I lost a close friend and family member. Our little dog Gypsy was put to sleep to end months of struggling with a collapsed trachea. Until now Gypsy never brought a second of sadness to our home. He was pure joy and happiness , as only a faithful dog can be. Even his death did not really bring sadness into our home, only grief of personal loss. I can only imagine the loss he is feeling. He has been terminally separated from his people, to whom, as is typical for a dog, he has been intensely loyal, loving and committed.
Gypsy was our companion for just slightly less than 10 years. He was the alpha of his little pack of 3 other dogs, who are now very confused by his departure. Do dogs grieve the loss of a pack member? Probably not the way we do, but there is a dramatic difference in the personality of our little pack without him and some of the joy in their daily living is gone for the moment. A new dynamic in our home will develop and we will all adjust to this loss, but it will never the same (and probably should not be) without our little Gypsy.

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